Sextrospective

[besubversive]

It occurred to me in the shower that I'd like to make a little chart of people I've slept with, in order and grouped together by the year in which I first slept with them. For statistical analysis of a sort.

As it turns out, I saw the most varied action in 2004. That doesn't necessarily mean I got the MOST action of my life that year. I just acquired the most new partners. My guess is that I had the most sex in 2006.

And something I didn't realize until looking at all the facts: Last year, 2007, was the first year since I became sexually active that I didn't sleep with anyone I hadn't already slept with at least once. It's sort of an interesting thing to realize. It was quite the personal, introspective, solitary year.

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[angela-la-la.livejournal.com]

We should hang out. I thought I was the only person I knew who did things like make spreadsheets (huh huh, I said spread) of Life History. I made a timeline a few weeks ago to clarify in my head who I was sleeping with when.

[besubversive.livejournal.com]

I'm an analytical goof about things. I like to add 'em up and separate them into different groups and compare data and such.

I even added two sidebars containing (1) the count of folks with whom I'd done more than making out but slightly less than having sex as I would define it and (2) the count of people I'd phone sexxed but not sexxed in person. The info seemed relevant to the project but not enough to be included in the count.

And we really ought to hang out!

[go-team-venture.livejournal.com]

It was like that for me all of 2007 until December. Then, BAM, I guess the holidays knocked something loose, and two separate cool folks spent a night or two with me. Too bad they're both out of town now.

[besubversive.livejournal.com]

That really is too bad!

Maybe the warming trend will take a northerly course and bring a little action my way. My fingers are crossed.

[go-team-venture.livejournal.com]

I'll light a candle for you. A sexy candle. (If candle-shaped is sexy.)